LIVING WITH YOUR CAT IN HARMONY
			
		 
	It is most beneficial for you and your cat 
		if you accept the fact that cats are animals, not "furry kids." Cats are  
		excellent animal companions. They are intelligent, beautiful, and 
		loveable creatures. Even though, people take care of cats for centuries, 
		they still have their instincts. Good 
		communication helps to discipline your cat. A disapproving tone and gentle tap on the cats nose all that are 
		needed in most cases. The most important is to make the rules of the 
		house from the very beginning and stick to them.  
		
			
			
		 
	 
		
			
	MEOWING AND PLAYING DURING THE 
		NIGHT
			
      
		Cats are 
		night animals. They are more active in the early mornings and late 
		evenings, which is the best times for cats to hunt. They rest and sleep 
		the rest of the time.  Cats cannot possibly understand why they have to 
		be quiet at night, best time for playing and eating. Your cats could 
		adjust to eat in the evenings and late mornings, if you do not get off 
		your bed at 4-5 a.m. and feed them at night. If a cat get a response 
		from his human when he plays at night, the human become a squeaky toy 
		for a cat. Do not encourage your cats to be active at night time, and 
		they will get used to your schedule. Feeding dry food in the mornings 
		and wet foot and other delicious food in the evenings or afternoons 
		might help - your cat will not become excited about his morning meal and 
		sleeps more.
			
			
			  
			
			HOW TO SOLVE LITTER BOX 
		PROBLEMS
			
      If your 
		cat urinates out of his litter box, he might have urinary tract 
		problems. You have to check his health as soon as possible. Some cats 
		just have "bad manners." All you could do is to make your cat's litter 
		box more attractive. Put it in a place where your cat can have some 
		privacy. Buy a few litter boxes in different shape. Try to offer your 
		cat different litters. It is possible he doesn't like the sent of the 
		litter you are using for his litter box.  For cats that dig too hard and 
		make a mess around their litter box, try to use a litter box with an 
		entrance from the top of litter box. 
			
		
			
			SCRATCHING FURNITURE AND RUGS
			
			
			      
		 
		Scratching is cat's natural behavior. Introduce the scratching post to 
		your cat on the very first day. Encourage your cat to use scratching 
		post. Let your cat know you disapprove his using your furniture for 
		scratching and you like when he use a scratching post. You could spray 
		it with cat nip or attach some of cat's favorite toys to it. Trim your 
		cat's nails tips. When you choose furniture for your home, keep you cats 
		scratching behavior in mind.
			
 
			
			WHY ALTERING YOUR CAT IS 
		IMPORTANT
			
 *  There are too many unwanted 
		cats and kittens in the world. Please do not breed cats which were not 
		chosen for breeding by the breeder you purchase your cat from. Please do 
		not breed your cat because your friends or family want kittens from you 
		cat.
			
 *   De-sexed cats live 1.5 
		longer than entire cats, because they are healthier. De-sexing decreases 
		the risk of getting urinary tract problems by 20-30 %.  De-sexed cats 
		don't have hormonal ups and downs. They definitely have less stress from 
		abstinence. Entire females might go in heat every 2 weeks for 7 days. 
		Their bodies can stay in estrus until they mate. If a female cat goes in 
		heat many times without mating, she might get endometritis, pyometra, or 
		other reproductive system problems.
			
			 
			*   De-sexed cats are safer.  
		Not only do entire males mark, but they meow very loudly to attract 
		neighborhood females. Burmese cats are indoor only cats. They have been 
		pampered for centuries, so they do not protect themselves when they go 
		outside. They don't even know that they have to run away from the car. 
		Most entire males have an urge to go outside and look for available 
		females and mark the territory they live on. 
			
			*   Living with an entire cat is 
		very uncomfortable. Entire cats spray. There is a big chance that an 
		entire male cat will mark all over the place: your doors, furniture, 
		walls, and even clothes and shoes. Some male cats start spraying at the 
		age of 7 month. Male cat might start marking later, when he is 2 years 
		old. De-sexed cats do not spray. More over, de-sexed cats' urine doesn't 
		smell as bad as the entire cat'. Most female cats become very laud when 
		in heat. Male cats could meow constantly to attract a potential mate.
			
			*   De-sexed cats have more 
		pleasant personalities. Without sexual and hormonal "problems" cats 
		enjoy their life more.
		
			
 
 
		
		 CATS AND PUNISHMENT  
			
		     Cats do not understand physical 
		punishment - it's just does not work for cats.  Lean how to punish your 
		cat in a cat's way.  Hissing might be very effective. Cats understand 
		light tapping on nose and cheeks. You can hold your cat by grabbing his 
		skin between his shoulders, where mother cat grabs her kitten to carry 
		them, lift cat's upper body and hiss at him looking into his eyes. This 
		technique works very well on male cats. Cats don't get mad at his human 
		and they don't think they were treated badly when punished this way.  
		Cats should know their place in a family hierarchy, as they do in 
		nature. It is not comfortable living with a cat who thinks he is a boss 
		of the household and he can do whatever he wants to.   
			
		
			
		( On the picture: Simona was home alone :-)
			
		COMMUNICATION  
			
		 I believe that cats have a power to 
		communicate without using their voice, on a spiritual level. Somehow I 
		know what my cat is trying to tell me. It’s an amazing feeling. 
		 
		
		     Burmese cats are talkative cats. Every cat 
		has his own voice and vocabulary.  When you come home they tell you 
		what happened while you were not here. 
		 They 
		greet you when you approach to them. If they need something, they are 
		not shy to ask.  
		It’s easier to understand 
		your own cat, if you pay attention, spend time with him and talk to him.
		 If 
		you love your cat, your ear become tuned to the nuances of your cat’s 
		own voice. 
		
		    
		Cats are smart. 
		 They 
		do not need attending communication classes to learn that language is 
		only a bunch of symbols and everybody applies their own meaning to each 
		symbol. 
		Cats do not listen to the 
		words; they listen to the meaning of them, to intonation of your voice. If 
		they like what you say to them, they replay to you and purr. Most 
		people think that purr is a sign of pleasure. In fact, cats purr not 
		only when they experiencing pleasure. Cats could purr when they are in 
		a great pain, or overexcited, or scared. 
		 Purring, 
		very attractive and heartwarming sound, is one of the reasons to love cats.
		
		     Cats vocalize to each other only in a 
		crisis situation. Their normal communication is a body 
		language. Cats have a sophisticated range of messages, which they 
		transmit using their ears, tail and whole body. People could easily 
		recognize some of cats' emotional expressions.
		
		
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			Licking and light biting means a great compliment - your cat is 
			showing affection.
			 
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			Horizontal lashing of the tail - your cat is irritated.
			 
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			Fluffing up of the tail and coat  - your cat wants to appear 
			larger in size and scare someone.
			 
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			Tail and ears are up - your cat is happily exited.
			 
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			Ears flattened sideways - your cat is uncertain or suspicious 
			about something.
			 
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			Squinted or slowly closed and opened eyes - your cat is 
			emphasizing his love and trust.
			 
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			Head is down, back legs are tapping - the cat is ready to 
			attack.
			 
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			Head is down sideway - the cat gives up a fight.
			 
		
		
		     Communicating with your cat is very rewarding. It makes your 
		companionship with your cat  more pleasurable and satisfying.
		
			
			 
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